I have a personal policy of never deleting comments and so far, I have stuck with that. This is why I also have the negative comments posted. I feel that I may have to change that policy because of one person, going by “J”.
It’s one thing to not agree with a lifestyle, but we are all adults here. It’s not up to anyone to judge (yes, she is judging) or to tell someone that they are “wrong” in who they love. Because we are all adults, we know what is right and what is wrong. Those of us who are in love with married men know right from wrong. We also know what we need to do in our lives and the lives of those we love. We don’t need someone who has no clue about this to tell us that we need to “heal” or to give our men up so THEY can “heal” their families. I have never encouraged anyone, either here or in my real life, to go find a married man to lure away from home. In fact, there have been times when, in my replies, I have encouraged the OW to fully think of the consequences of their actions, especially in cases where they work together.
Unfortunately, “J” seems to have appointed herself judge and jury over all OW and has made it her mission to try to “cure” us of our “selfish ways”. Each time she comments on a post, it’s not once, but several times, and it’s getting tedious. I’m tired of responding to her because she will never get it. She spews “statistics” and psycho-babble and personally, I have had enough. It’s not fair to any of us to have to read her constant harassment. We are not naughty children who need to be punished.
Now, I am not going to stop posting her nonsense at this time. What I will do, however, is ask anyone reading if you are as tired of this as I am. If I get replies that say to stop her comments, then I will. But, as I said, I’m tired of this little game and am trying hard not to respond to her. If anyone else would like to respond to “J”, feel free.
I’m sure she will feel superior and think that she “hit a nerve”, but as I said in a reply to her….I’m tired of beating a dead horse. Of course, if I try to explain things to her, she claims I am being “defensive”. Whatever. It is what it is.
Thanks, everyone! Just let me know what you prefer: stop the harassment or keep her posts?